FAQ regarding the sessions

Details on individual treatments & rituals
What can I expect from an erotic massage?

My sessions are an invitation to leave everyday life behind and experience sexual energy as a life force. In a protected space, we explore pleasure and sensuality beyond societal norms. We tailor each session individually according to your wishes.

Important: Oral or anal intercourse is strictly excluded. This is professional bodywork where mutual respect and the maintenance of boundaries are the top priority.

WHO IS THIS FOR? (ORIENTATION & SHAME)

My offers are aimed at ALL people, regardless of their sexual orientation and gender identity. Since the majority of my guests are cis men, my descriptions are sometimes phrased accordingly. However, this does not mean that I exclude people with different identities and bodies from my services.

Many guests feel nervous or ashamed for the first time, and that is completely normal. I provide an atmosphere without pressure to perform, where you can safely let go. Only what you explicitly want happens.

Orgasm, ejaculation & sexual energy

An orgasm can be part of the experience, but it is not a "must." In my rituals and sessions, you learn to experience pleasure not just as a goal-oriented act, but as a full-body experience. Whether you want to conclude with or without ejaculation is your decision in the moment.

Erection issues or "coming too early" are not obstacles here. We use breath and various techniques to take the pressure off and prioritize pure enjoyment.

Hygiene, showers & health (STI)

Cleanliness is a matter of course. You can shower at my place before and after the massage. Since no anal or oral intercourse takes place, there is no risk of HIV. I get tested regularly and recommend this to my guests as well (e.g., at Checkpoint Zurich).

Punctuality & procedure

Please plan about 15 minutes of buffer time for the preliminary talk, showering, and settling in. If you are going to be more than 15 minutes late, please let me know briefly by phone.

FAQ regarding the events

Useful information for workshops, events & retreats
Is a workshop like a sex party or orgy?

No. I view my courses as spaces for learning and experimentation. Unlike private sex parties or orgies, there are clear structures and moderated processes here. For every event, we establish binding rules that guarantee a safe framework for your personal experience.

Physical requirements & limitations

We strive to be inclusive, but please note that in many courses we work on futons on the floor. Anyone with significant physical limitations should check if the format is suitable or, if necessary, bring a partner who is prepared for these needs. If in doubt, please contact me in advance.

Do I have to undress completely?

In workshops where nudity is involved, it is part of the concept. A warm-up helps us reduce shame until undressing feels completely natural. Nevertheless, you decide your own pace – take as much time as you need.

Can I choose my partner?

To break routine patterns, the person you work with is often decided by chance. However, those who attend as a committed couple naturally have the option to perform all exercises exclusively with that partner.

Preparation & substances

Please arrive freshly showered and avoid wearing strong perfume. The consumption of psychoactive substances (alcohol, cannabis, poppers, etc.) is not permitted before or during the workshop to ensure clear body awareness and presence.